Grief..


There isn’t anyone that doesn’t suffer grief. It is universal in it’s pain. People sometimes suffer years with this pain. It is never the same with anyone. Some people can express their grief and let it go. Some can’t. Grief is a natural express that we all go through. In biblical times, there were people who were hired to express the grief of losing a loved one. Today it is much simpler. After a funeral, the family will gather to eat and fellowship with the bereaved family. It helps, but it doesn’t fill the loss of a loved one.

I have lost most of my family and now I am the oldest one. I have a younger brother and a few first cousins. It is as life was designed, that the older ones would go on. But it still leaves that hole in my life of all the loved ones that have gone on. The pain of grief isn’t as much as it was. That is healing as I live, but there still is a hole there.

I was listen to some music, when I ran across this piece. This piece of music was written in 1933 by a blind composer. He name was Joaquin Rodrigo. He wrote this piece of music after the death of his first born son. When I first heard it, I could feel the hurt in the music. It is very good and express his grief for his child. The name of the music is Concierto de Aranjuez, the Concerto of Orange Juice. I put a link to the music below. Listen and heard one man’s expression of grief.

Crain Blanchard.

Joseph1637@juno.com

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Writing Blogs…


I have written over 1900 blogs. Some have had thousands of views and comments. As I look at the most successful blogs, they have been about fluff. I have talked about time, space, duty, honor, integrity and many other stories. But it seems that if I talk about what I believe in most, no one wants to read it. Stories about life are fine. They will get you from point A to point B. But they don’t solve the basic issue of life. And what is that all important issue of life? It is who you are and where do you belong.

I wandered in life for 30 years. Not realizing that I had solve the issue when I was 8 years old. I didn’t want to believe that the resolution was that simple. So I did my own thing for about 30 years. I ran into walls pivoted and ran into another wall. I kept seeing how dissatisfied I was with my life. I wanted success, but never being able to grasp it. The reason was simple. I was reaching for the wrong things in life. Instead of solving the problem, I was creating more.

A friend saw through me and invited me to join his Amway business. I did join seeing the opportunity. We would meet early in morning at his cafeteria for coffee and business. I would get their early and listen to my friend and other businessman discuss how they solve the issues of life. I listen for 3 months until I realized that I had made this decision and walked away. He showed how I could get back to place that I wanted to be. I am not a religious person. I don’t have dogma’s or doctrines that don’t make sense. What I do have is a relationship. That relationship has given me peace and courage to live my life correctly.

My people don’t want to hear the name of the person who saved my life from destruction. But I have a relationship with the one person who is able to keep me until I go home to heaven. And His name is Jesus.

Crain Blanchard.

Joseph1637@juno.com

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