After the battle of Gettysburg, there was a ceremony to dedicate the Soldiers National Cemetery. The organizing people invited Edward Everett to be the main speaker. They also invited President Lincoln. Everett spoke for two hours before President Lincoln spoke. Lincoln knew the Everett would be long winded. So, he wrote his most famous speech on a piece of cardboard. His speech was exactly 272 words. The photographers didn’t have time to set up their cameras, by the time President Lincoln finish the Gettysburg Address. Abraham Lincoln’s most famous address that is written on the wall of the Lincoln Memorial. No body remembers what Edward Everett said. Even after 168 years, everybody knows the Gettysburg Address. That government of the people, by the people, for the people, shall not perish from this earth.

We learn to speak when we are young. We can’t wait to able to speak. Many times I have seen small children run around screaming with other children. They were not saying a word, but they were communicating with each other. It can get irritating because of the noise level. But communicating is a real need in our lives. We strive to be understood and become frustrated when we are not. Some people are chatter boxes, while some don’t say two word. Have you ever met someone that didn’t say anything, but you knew what he was saying anyway? It’s interesting how that works. We learn communication all of our lives. Yet, some things are a puzzle.

Words have power. Speaking must be done judiciously. We can encourage, discourage, up lift or destroy with our words. I heard this many years ago, but have found it to be true. You can’t take back hurtful words or reverse what you said. It is like taking a box of feathers to the top of a mountain, then releasing them. Then try to gather all of them back again. You can’t. Our words have a power of its own.

Using our words correctly takes self discipline. We have to learn to speak at the right time. Everybody knows the fable of the boy who cried wolf. In the end, no one believed a word he said. It is important that people can believe what you say. It is not only for your sake, but for others also. This is where using our word correctly comes into play. What if all your words come to pass, just as you have spoken them. I have heard many people say, that kills me or I can’t do that. Guess what, those words come to pass whether or not we want them to. It’s not that we can’t speak. It is speaking the truth and live that way. For as the mouth speaks, so are we.

Crain Blanchard.

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