The bible says when the Prodigal son came to himself, he saw that he was living with the pigs. And his father’s servants had homes,food and family. He said to himself, I will go to my father and ask forgiveness and become one of his servants. He started thinking soberly. God has standards so that our quality of life is good. As any father who wants for his children, God will move heaven and earth to do for us. But first we must come to ourselves and think soberly about who we are and where we are. It is true the no one can take us out of God’s hands. There is one exception, point you finger at yourself. You are the only one that can take yourself out of the hands of God. For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; but to think soberly, according as God has given to every man the measure of faith. Romans 12:3. (KJV).